It's been forever since my last post so much have changed. I've gone through so much more challenges and adversities that were thrown by fate. But fate however, is a funny thing when you come to think of it. It changes your life in just a click or a blink of an eye. For instance, the only couple I know spilt up after 5 long years of committing themselves in a loving relationship and with everyone certain that they'll someday be in a blissful marriage. So this course of life has certainly came as a shock to all dear to them.

We know that being in a relationship is never easy. It doesn't involves being selfish but instead it was all about giving and sharing. It was about loving each other so much that we would give up our lives for our loved one. However, recent events have changed my perception. As said by a friend, the possibility of meeting our true love at the first time is rare, almost impossible. But there is a speck of possibility no matter.

Truth is, being in a relationship is nothing like what we see in the movies and dramas we so often watch. In movies, the male character makes love look so charming, sending flowers to his loved one, always coming up with surprises on birthdays and anniversaries and always creating a happy atmosphere. But face it, we know in our hearts that its impossible to have rainbows every day. Life as the old saying goes, has its ups and downs. So in reality, being in a relationship involves two people to sacrifice for each other. It involves getting through challenges together, being patient with each other, solving out misunderstandings together, and on top of all that, loving each other.

It gets tiring sometimes, but when you think of it, its worthwhile. However, sometimes on certain days, you just feel like living in one of your many fantasies just for once. You would want your beloved to know for once what is on your mind without you needing to speak, knowing why your sad and comforting you, buying a bouquet of roses just for the fun of it, surprising you by presents or unexpected meetings.

Would be wonderful wouldn't it? But as we know, it doesn't always work that way and in reality, most things that works out in dreams don't work out in reality. So with all that is said, will you be able to stick by the side of your loved one? In sadness and happiness? And like the old saying, till death do you part?